Gay dudes list the turn-ons they didn’t think would do the trick until they did
“When a guy gets very firm in the way he speaks to me—even more so if he’s more masculine and tougher than I am.”
“Dad bods and men wearing thobes.”
“Feet.”
“Being called daddy.”
“CBT was a surprise.”
“Spit and extremely sloppy kisses.”
“Leather chaps. Saw a hot DILF biker at Walmart one time wearing them, and suddenly [I had] feelings of aroused confusion.”
“Chastity cages. A year ago, I would have thought you were nuts if you had said I’d love it.”
“Jockstraps. I know! How could anyone not?! But I didn’t care for them in the slightest until i found one in my first boyfriend’s underwear drawer.”
“Romantic sex, with genuine love between the top and the bottom, with smooching and all.”
“I’m vers, but when I bottom, I like it when my boyfriend holds my wrists behind my back like I have handcuffs on. I’m not really sure if it’s a fetish, though, because I don’t like not having control of my hands during sex. It was a happy accident.”
“Quality connection and a sense of humor, LMAO.
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